FEMINISM and RELATIONSHIPS

This song often makes an appearance in the backstage of my brain when I try to juggle my FEMINISM with the word RELATIONSHIP. Love and relationships are often deemed to be selfless and noble in nature. Where you go on to sacrifice all your gender biases and learn to love and hold close a certain member of the opposite sex(or the same sex) so that he/she becomes the ULTIMATE person in your life and gains a position of priority in whatever decisions you make.

It requires a lot of understanding (and standing, rather withstanding) the person in and out. It is a Herculean task. Mighty in character and only the very brave can actually face the magnanimity of such an important task in hand. Especially tougher if you turn out to be a hardcore FEMINIST. And I promise you that in such a case it is a hot mess, one which you find difficult to swallow and impossible to spit out.

No wonder each of such women run away from any kind of love/relationship!!

Now it actually doesn't make a lot of sense as to why I am taking the effort to write a post on such a topic?? That's because I am bloody PISSED OFF!! With whom?? (you may ask) Its with every male who thinks that the place of women is in the kitchen. Now come on dude, here is a girl such as educated (probably more) as you are, just as good looking, just as competent, just as confident, just as charming and boy!! you know what??!! she comes to live with you after getting married to you and even changes her surname to match yours ( in most cases) though I'd rather prefer not to do so. And what do you do to her?
   You make her work in the kitchen!!

The men seem to have forgotten to filter out such a female for any traces of FEMINISM. 
And boy if they have then Almighty Lord bless them as it is said "If a man thinks that a woman's place is in the kitchen then he should also very well remember that's where all the knives are kept"

Or even more better....

Its not that women don't feel like cooking or going into the kitchen but they are tired of being treated as people who are only confined to the four walls of the kitchen. They had a life before stepping into yours. So its high time that we realised that and started giving such women the chance to prosper, bloom, breathe and be at the same level as they are. 

Learn a few chores. It won't kill you. And always remember "nothing is more sexier than a man who knows to cook and clean."